Destined for Gratefulness

Make A Difference Monday

2009-09-21T07:35:00.005-05:00

Click HERE for Make A Difference Monday

What a fantastic inspiration to make a difference today and everyday! We can call a friend, send a card or just smile at a stranger! Let me know what you do today to Make A Difference!

Signs

2009-09-20T14:46:00.001-05:00

* On a New York loft building:
"Wanted: Woman to sew buttons on the fourth floor."

* In a New Hampshire medical building:
"Martin Diabetes Professional Ass."

* In the office of a loan company:
"Ask about our plans for owning your home."

* In a New York medical building:
"Mental health prevention center."

* In a toy department:
"Five Santa Clauses -- no waiting."

* On a New York convalescent home:
"For the sick and tired of the Episcopal Church."

* On a Maine shop:
"Our motto is to give our customers the lowest possible prices and
workmanship.

* At a number of military bases:
"Restraicted to unauthorized personnel."

* In a number of parking areas:
"Violators will be enforced and Trespassers will be violated."

* On a display of "I Love You Only" Valentine cards:
"Now available in multi-packs."

* In the window of a Kentucky appliance store:
"Don't kill your wife. Let our washing machines do the dirty work."

* In a funeral parlor:
"Ask about our layaway plan.

* On a window of a New Hampshire hamburger restaurant:
"Yes, we are open. Sorry for the inconvenience."

* In a clothing store:
"Wonderful bargains for men with 16 and 17 necks."

* In a Tacoma, Washington men's clothing store:
"15 men's wool suits - $10.00 - They won't last an hour!"

* On an Indiana shopping mall marquee:
"Archery tournament. Ears pierced."

* In the bathroom of a large apartment building:
"When taking showers, please leave the bathroom door a jar.
This will prevent the plaster from peeling."

* Outside a country shop:
"We buy junk and sell antiques."

How I'm Feeling

2009-09-16T18:59:00.003-05:00

Ok, so maybe I'm not THAT desperate- yet. But it feels that way when you have finally decided you are ready to get back in the workforce. I want the RIGHT job not just A job. At first it seemed they only companies interested in me where insurance agencies so I expanded a bit and sent resume's to particular companies and have had a few interviews. But nothing that just made me giddy. After much prayer I can happily say I have received and accepted a quite unusual job offer. I am going to be working at Gavin's school teaching the 2 1/2 year olds from 8-1. Gavin will get to go to school for free, I get to work with kids, and I can get ready to go back to school in January for my teaching certificate. I am so thankful for this. I have wanted to go back to school for so long but just never have followed through. But after substituting this past month at the HS I have never been more certain. What blessings God has given me!
A big "thank you" goes to my husband who says "I want you to do what makes you happy". WOW! I am so incredibly lucky.

Oh Happy Day!!

2009-09-14T10:43:00.003-05:00

Love it when the FedEx man comes to my house!! Look what he brought me today:

So finally I can make calls, recieve calls, text, etc... all the wonderful things that my last phone just stopped doing.
And thank you to my hubby for all he went through to get it. Let's just say I can be a bit difficult! ;-)

Sunday Comics

2009-09-13T08:02:00.001-05:00

Rememberence

2009-09-11T07:05:00.003-05:00

Look Ladies, it CAN be done!

2009-09-09T18:28:00.003-05:00

I went to Gavin's bathroom last week and noticed a torn empty toilet paper roll in the floor and a new roll of toilet paper on the roll. After my initial shock, and the realization that Kris had NOT done this, I went to the other suspect- Gavin. "Gavin, did you change the toilet paper roll?" "Yes momma" was his reply. Well, having realized this was a phenomenon not unlike the Lochness Monster or Big Foot, I readied my camera for the next occurrence. Here is what I captured.

YES! YES! YES!! I have managed (without knowing it) to train the only known and documented man to change the toilet paper roll!!

Of course like all men caught doing something good he is so proud of himself!!
**Now, if I can just get him to get the paper to roll from the top and not the bottom**

Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month

2009-09-09T18:16:00.003-05:00

September is National Cancer Awareness Month. Ovarian cancer is the 9th leading cause of cancer in women and the 5th leading cause of cancer deaths. The American Cancer Society's most recent estimates for ovarian cancer in the United States are for 2009:

21,550 new cases of ovarian cancer
14,600 deaths from ovarian cancer

Click American Cancer Societieslink and read to find out more information such as risk factors, sypmtoms, and preventative measures. I use theACS website frequently for great information that doesn't come across as too scary, Just the facts. Feel free to share this website with others.

The Boy with the Green Umbrella

2009-09-07T07:37:00.005-05:00

No, we don't have an indoor leak, and at the time this picture was taken we had no rain nor none in the forecast. But when we went to the new Lifeway Store (or the library as Gavin so sweetly put it) he found this green umbrella and HAD to have it. Actually he wanted 2 but I had to draw the line somewhere!
Not only did he have to have this green umbrella but he also had to open it and pretend it was raining inside and jump puddles. My poor friend Alisa was such a sport and just got her own umbrella and played right along. I don't know what the other patrons thought but G and Alisa had a fantastic time.
So now here were are a couple of weeks in to the new umbrella phase and I can report it is still going strong!

I've Been Educated by VS

2009-09-07T07:19:00.004-05:00

I try to stay up to date on the latest fashion trends- I may not actually follow them, but I try to stay up to date. Imagine my surprise when I saw this headline on a section of my MSN homepage:
Fall Lingerie & Loungewear

Really? Now I am no lingerie expert but in my experience but is there really fall lingerie? I mean ok, fall colors to get away from the usual red, white, or black, but I have never actually seen fall lingerie. So upon some research (and very little mind you before depression set in) I did manage to come up with the ONLY thing fall lingerie could be-

Yes, the ever popular Camo Set!

Just a thought.....

2009-09-05T09:43:00.002-05:00

As I was finishing up some last minute gifting for my husband I had to make a run to Wal-mart. My niece was with me and we were really trying to hurry but still not feel rushed-been there? As we are standing in line to pay I realize the woman in front of me is just talking away to the cashier. Now, by the look on the cashier's face the advice she was recieving was unsolicited and she was trying so hard to be polite. She had lost her voice (which always sounds funny to say) so she didn't have the luxury of saying anything that might end the conversation. Now don't get me wrong- I am a talker and I do my fair share. But I also try to listen too. So the perdicament of the checker really got me thinking. Here she is FORCED to listen. She is a captive audience and she has no choice but to listen to whatever pearl of wisdom each customer has to offer. Now I wonder how often I actively listen instead of just talking to fill space- being that overly talkative "customer" instead of really listening to what is going on. In all this the cashier still managed to keep a smile on her face and as we checked out and turned to leave she handed us a note that said "Thank you.. Have a great day!".
I now plan on working harder at listening in my life and at not only what others are saying but what the aren't saying as well. Silece can be golden after all. Just don't expect at 3 1/2 year old to understand!

Fellow Blogger Giveaway

2009-09-04T10:09:00.004-05:00

Southern Fried Dreams

For the 12 or so people out there who AREN"T followers of Southern Fried Dreams, today is the day to become one. Go over and check out her Blogiversy giveaway HERE She is a fantasic wife, mother, and blogger. Check out all her posts for some fantastic eye candy!!
My Southern Fried Friend is also a Southern Living at Home consultant and got me so excited about the product and the opportunity I became a consultant myself. If your interested in becoming a part of our "family" leave me a comment and I would LOVE to talk.

I'm A Winner! (again)

2009-09-04T09:12:00.003-05:00

Anyone who reads this or knows me knows how much I love books!! I have gotten better at not buying and just using the good 'ol library system -for the most part. I am also a fan of Goodreads for the fact that I can keep up with what I have read, want to read, what my friends are reading, or reviews.
They also have fantastic giveways of several books that are about to come out and (of course) I entered most of them. I was so excited when I recieved an email saying I had won this:

And here is the book description:

Joyce Meyer is not satisfied with the status quo. She believes that we each need to become a revolutionary and practice love every day. And if Joyce has her way, the revolution will spread - person by person, house by house, town by town, until the old culture of selfishness and greed gives way to a new culture of concern for others.

The book is a revolutionaries' manual, a hands-on primer for bringing the Golden Rule to life in the twenty-first century. Meyer starts out by giving some stunning statistics. Right now...210,000 children will die this week because of poverty; 640 million children do not have adequate shelter; every day, 3,000 children are abducted into the sex-trafficking industry; every day, 16,000 children die from hunger-related causes. She goes on to say that although crisis is global, the solution is local. We can't solve the world's problems, but that isn't a reason to remain idle.

LOVE REVOLUTION focuses on personal behavior on the local scale. It's not just a call to action; it is a call to being: being the person who goes out of your way to encourage someone who's out of hope; being the one who smiles at a stranger; being the one who is willing to do something for nothing. The paradox: when we do something for nothing, what we often get is something far greater.

So, you can see why I am so excited. I'll give you my own review after I get it and read it.

Another Giveaway Reminder

2009-08-23T11:15:00.002-05:00

There is a fantastic giveaway at Dollar Store Crafts that I wanted to share with everyone. I have been following her blog for awhile and she has some FANASTIC and FRUGAL ideas. Gavin and I have even got the supplies for one such craft:A Microfiber Hedgehog. How cute is THAT!! There are SO many great ideas on this site and I cannot wait to see what comes next for fall and the holidays!

Cousins

2009-08-23T11:00:00.004-05:00

Last Sunday while Kris was on duty Gavin and I went to my mom and dads "cabin" to get out of the house and to visit. Cousin Dani was there too and these are some of the great pics I got of the 2 of them. She is such a great helper and loves to mother Gavin. I am so happy they are close and love each other so much. (even though they DO argue like broher and sister sometimes!)

Sunday Comics

2009-08-23T10:57:00.002-05:00

Click Here for this weeks edition of "Sunday Comics".

I've Been Chosen!!

2009-08-21T16:52:00.003-05:00

Wow! I have just been chosen as Friday's Featured Folllower (aka stalker- FFF) by a blogger I LOVE to read Chalk It Up! She is a fantastic artist as well as creator of some of the cutest chalk boards you will ever see. I feel honored to be today's feature (almost sounds like a plate lunch special when I put it like that!. Take time to visit Chalk It Up as well as her Esty store. Christmas will be here before you know it!!

It's Cancer

2009-08-17T23:44:00.002-05:00

Those were the words I heard last Monday from the dermatologists office regarding the biopsies I had mentioned in a few posts back. (Important Information Of the four biopsies 2 were normal moles, one was a dysplastic abnormal mole and the fourth- the one I was concerned about to begin with-cancerous. If there is a skin cancer to have luckily I had the best form.
After I recovered from my initial shock and gathered all the information I could I emailed some close friends for prayer and left the rest up to God.
Today was the day of my outpatient surgery and all in all I think things went well. The cancerous area was scraped and then burned (very technical terms I know!!) and the area where the abnormal mole was located was cut out and will be biopsied again. Right now my arm is really hurting from where they took the LARGE circular area. I will have to go back in 2 weeks to have the stitches removed and then again in 3 months for another full body exam. Unless the second biopsy comes back abnormal hopefully this is it for a while!!
I will say that even though this cancer has not been life threatening per se it has been hard to go through and scary. I just am overly aware of every little blemish, every little twinge of pain in my body now. I think we are our own best advocate for our health care and I am so thankful that I followed my instint and had the biopsies done instead of just removal!

I'm A Winner!!

2009-08-17T23:37:00.002-05:00

As I was getting ready this morning I got a phone call from a number I didn't recognize. Usually I would just let them leave a message, especially since I was running a little behind. But imagine my surprise when I answered and heard this:

"This is Channel 5 and you have just won tickets to Elmo's Green Thumb!"

I think I said "You're kidding" in a very excited voice. I had been wanting to take Gavin when the show comes to town next week but the cost coupled with not knowing if he would even sit still long enough for it had deterred me. But FREE!?!? Can't say no to that!

A Good Day

2009-08-14T17:21:00.003-05:00

It's been kind of a crappy week to put it mildly! I won't go into all the details but let's just say it had lots of excitement, a little smoke, and a whole lotta of what the @#%$^$% going on!!
So imagine my surprise when I went to Chik-Fil-A (shocking I KNOW) and this is what I get home with:

No, I can't say I was the 100th customer but something told me I should just go inside to order my large tea with lemon. So as I am waiting on my tea the nice little dude next to me was the 100th customer (I can hear the cowbell ringing even as I type!) He was quite pleased with himself to say the least. So we chatted while we waited and then (tear) he handed me the rose and said "Have a great day"! Now as cheesy as it sounds it really did make a difference in my day! It felt good for someone to do something nice for me who had no reason to and wouldn't expect something in return later. So Chik-Fil-A guy wherever you are....Thanks So Much!!

Lisa Bevere

2009-08-06T16:05:00.002-05:00

For anyone out there who is not familiar with Lisa Bevere your time has come. This past spring I had the priviledge of attending a bible study at Heritage United Methodist entitled "Fight Like A Girl" and cannot tell you what a blessing it was. Lisa has a fantastic way of just slapping you around a bit. Here is her latest Facebook status:
Lisa Beverethe spirits says...when God looks at you he sees something more...He sees promise. A generation of daughters so terrifying to the enemy that he will do whatever he can to distort your image, pervert your beauty & rob your strength. The father of lies speaks thru a glass darkly, but the Father of Light longs to speak with you face-to-face. The king is enthralled by your beauty;honor Him (psalm45) & excerpt Fight...
Powerful stuff, no?
If you are on Facebook (and who isn't these days) I strongly encourage you to becocmea fan, and get access to some of her books. You will be blessed for it!

Oh the Questions

2009-08-04T18:07:00.003-05:00

All I can say is "What did people do before the internet"? Gavin just came and asked "Mom, what's a tuxedo"? HUH? I explained it, he said "like halloween" which a lot of men would agree with. So I did a search and found this picture for him.

Another mystery solved! Now if I can just get him to stop singing "tuxedo, tuxedo" to his own little tune....

Picnic and Swimming

2009-08-04T17:07:00.005-05:00

Two of the best parts of summer: picnics and swimming! We hadn't done either this summer I am sad to report unless you count that 3 footer we had in our backyard. (empty at current post time- with tadpoles!) So this past Sunday after church we got home, packed a quick and easy lunch and headed to Lake Fort Smith. We really weren't sure if we would go swimming but Gavin and I dressed for it just in case. First we ate our "swamwiches" as Gavin calls them.

We made a mistake of parking too close to the playground area so he didn't eat much but he did take a few trips down the slide and climb around on anything he could.

Here is where he is telling me "momma the slide is hot I just KNOW it". It didn't keep him from going down it about a dozen times!

Finally we made it to the swimming area. Here a a couple of pics. I would post more but Kris took too many of me in them and I don't have the time to crop them today.

Airplane Pilot

2009-08-04T16:55:00.003-05:00

Gavin seems to have a fascination with anything related to the sky: the moon, stars, rockets, and airplanes. I am beginning to think he may have a future as a airplane pilot (or possibly flight attendant). At any rate, here are a few pics of him in all his flying glory!

He is very serious as you can tell by the position of his tongue!

He kept telling everyone "watch up" instead of look up.

Masterpeice in flight- right for the face!

One of the first attempts at getting the rocket in the air!

Getting a little height on this try.

Photo Giveaway

2009-08-04T10:38:00.002-05:00

The Meanest Mom is hosting a giveaway this week for a $260 Sears Studio Portrait set. Please see her blog HERE,leave a comment and you are entered. You will love her blog and if you aren't already a follower you will be after reading a few of her posts.

Important Information

2009-07-28T21:48:00.003-05:00

I have been actively involved with Relay for Life since 2003 and try to constantly be up on latest research and findings on all cancers. Recently however I had 4 skin biopsies (still waiting on the results) and it just served as a reminder that we can all do more. There are so many young girls out there that are already starting to go to tanning beds and spending more and more time in the sun even in light of all the research. Please take time to read the following link and pass it on to all you know. Tanning Beds and Cancer
People have laughed at me because Gavin always looks so pale since I always put "Skunk Screen" on him but I would rather he look pale than to be at higher risk for skin and other cancers. We should be doing all we CAN do because until there is a cure...

Southern Living At Home

2009-07-28T19:54:00.003-05:00

**Editor's note: Is it just me or are those FedEx workers getting younger and younger?**
Finally-- I got my SLAH kit last weekend and I cannot tell you how excited I am to get started with this wonderful business opportunity. On top of that the product is amazing, the people are inspiring, and it just plain ROCKS!!
Here is a view of what I got:

My pictures do not do justice to how awesome these products are! And with the starter kit I was fortunate enough to get the Mega Kit for free! Those 3 peices alone are worth over $250! What a lucky girl I am.
My hope is to post a new item every couple of days so you can really see the detail- and fall in love with it as much as I have!
I cannot wait to get started. I already have my first party scheduled and look forward to a full calendar soon!

Giveaway All Nighter

2009-07-28T19:39:00.003-05:00

I am a follower of the Making Memories Blog and LOVE when they go to CHA! That means even MORE giveaways and this week is no exception! Hop on over to Making Memories, enter the giveaways, read about the fantastic stuff that is rolling out this fall (Pink Slice!!)

and become a follower yourself!

American Idol Here We Come!

2009-07-23T21:31:00.002-05:00

Well, the American Idol Concert that is. A few weeks ago I was fortunate enough to win 2 tickets from our local radio station to go see the American Idol Concert in Tulsa. Super Excited! Tulsa is not that far so we can drive back and still sleep in our own bed but still have a date! WhoHoo!!

I will say I am already dreading leaving G man behind. Not because he won't be in good hands with mamaw and papaw but he hasn't been away from me overnight in over 2 years!! Not sure who will take it harder! I can take a guess though!!

The Circus Is In Town Apparently

2009-07-22T20:43:00.003-05:00

After a really bad migraine day and what seemed like no relief in site, Gavin and I had to make a trip to the grocery store one day last week. As I was dragging myself through the kitchen to the garage door I got quite a surprise. Seems that someone had left a box of (not so)Lucky Charms cereal within reach on the counter. I guess a second someone decided they needed a mid afternoon snack. Here was my reward:
Trying to find a quick cover he said "Look Mamma- the circus is here". Where DO they come up with this junk??
Knowing it was probably a bad thing and also knowing how terrible I had felt Gavin just looked up at me like "go ahead, let me have it" and I just cracked up!!

Mamma Got A Brand New Bag!

2009-07-22T20:38:00.002-05:00

On my last trip to Michaels, Gavin, my sister Julie, and neice Dani went with me. I had a couple of returns and no intentions of making any purchases. UNTIL>>> I saw this on clearance!

$25 (regularly $100) for this Cricut carrier and the only flaw was the rolling handle was not working. Something that is not imperative AND that Kris may be able to fix anyway. Now THAT is my kind of bag!

Worm Digging

2009-07-22T20:23:00.003-05:00

Apparently they can industrialize just about anything. Atleast that is what Gavin thinks. A couple of weeks ago he and I went to Tulsa with my dad and this is the view he saw from our hotel window:

Look Mamma- they are digging for worms!!
Upon closer inspection:

The Hair Cut

2009-07-22T20:11:00.003-05:00

Ok- this happened weeks ago but for the 2 of you that are following along you know I am SOOOO behind on my blogging!
I have learned that when things get too quiet around here I had better start looking for the boy. Unfortunately I didn't have that kind of warning on this day. I just happened to be walking by Gavin's bedroom door and caught him with a handful of hair about to make either a second or third cut. The sad part is that they were suppose to be safety scissors and NOT cut hair!!

As you can see by the look on his face this incident devastated him and I am not sure if he will ever recover!

So I cried a bit, picked up the strands I could locate and took pictures to blackmail him with later.

Just Call it A Teachable Moment...

2009-07-22T20:00:00.003-05:00

Yesterday evening, Gavin and I went to Sears to purchase a carpet cleaner. He was in his stroller being his normal fiesty self while I looked at the different models before finally choosing one. (In)Conveniently the cleaners were located directly across from the tv's and other media including the movies- the ridiculously priced movies. After begging for several minutes for a movie that was "his favorite" he finally resumed his place in the stroller. I could not believe how sweet he was being. You know the drill: puppy dog eyes looking up at you with those sweet long eye lashes and that toothy grin?
We headed to the car to load up and drive around to pick up our purchase at the loading dock. When we got to the car he is still being almost disgustingly sweet- handing me my purse, smiling and nodding. Then, I learned WHY! He leaned up from his stroller seat to climb out and low and behold there lies a Space Buddies DVD. My child the Klepto!! I was physically ill! I looked at him and told him we had to go back inside and he smile and said "so I can have it?". NO!! No you cannot have it!! I told him how we don't steal things and how it not only breaks momma's heart but Jesus' heart too and then I made him go back inside and take the movie to the nice gentleman who had waited on us and apologize. I know I did the right thing but part of me wonders if I could have done better before hand to have prevented it in the first place. Thus, our teachable moment...
On a side note, Kris says maybe we should frisk him from now on! Oye!

Who Doesn't Want to Win a Giveaway??`

2009-07-11T19:51:00.004-05:00

And on top of that, read about a fellow blogger and join in the fun? All that being said, click on the link Simply and see what all the fuss is about.

Now as for the Round Robin, still following through on that but....
Have a great week and good luck to all!!

Giveaway!

2009-07-04T00:22:00.002-05:00

Ok- you MUST go to "Chalk It Up" and look at her fantastic Blog!! I am so excited to have been introduced to it by my sister Julie through her blog at Simply Sanborn. "Chalk It Up" is hosting a giveway with several ways to enter. Cute stuff and great idea starter for me!

Ride 'em Dogboy?

2009-07-02T22:41:00.002-05:00

I hope PETA doesn't get wind of this or we may be in trouble! I know I have said before how much Gavin and Jack love each other and how well the get along but this is ridiculous! Gavin thinks he can ride Jack and Jack just sits there and let's him. Thank goodness for man's best friend!

Giveaway Notice

2009-06-26T17:53:00.002-05:00

You MUST go to Creative Party Themes for this awesome giveway! Click HERE for all the details. Be ready for some CUTE stuff people!

Goodbye to a Legend

2009-06-25T18:23:00.001-05:00

I remember being on the playground with our little boom boxes and dancing to "Thriller" and how we couldn't wait until then next recess to do it all over again. Oh what our parents spent in batteries!
Love him or loathe him, no one can disagree with the immense affect that Michael Jackson had on the world. He lived his life in the spotlight with fans around the world and I continue to be amazed at the fans he has been able to amass- young and old. "Thriller" is an iconic classic and is downloaded everyday by a new fan.

This day will be for us what Elvis' death was to our parents. We will always remember where we were when we heard the news and how we felt.

Big Day Tomorrow!!

2009-06-07T18:44:00.002-05:00

Tomorrow is going to be a long full day but I am so exited! First, I will be on our local Channel 5 to talk about this Friday's Relay For Life Crawford County. I love to talk about Relay and it's role in someday finding a cure for cancer! Click here for more information and ways you can help in your area.

Second- I am having my first Southern Living at Home Party tomorrow night at 6:30. I have never been able to attend any that I have been invited too because of Kris some how ALWAYS managing to be on duty those weeks. So I am excited to see all that they have to offer but most of all having a little girls time! Click here to look at a catalog or palce an order.

I'll be sure to blog some more later this week about both these events!

Skunk Screen?

2009-05-29T10:17:00.003-05:00

That is what I said- Skunk Screen! That is what Gavin called the sunscreen I needed to put on him! "But I don't want skunk screen". After some correction and explanation as to what sunscreen was for and that it would enable him to spend much more time outdoors he was all for it.

My mistake? Never leave a boy alone with a bottle of sunscreen and the promise of more time outside. I guess he thought the time he got outside would be proportionate to the amount of sunscreen he put on because here is what I caught:

I am sure I don't have to tell you that his feet were not burned that day!

Memorial Weekend

2009-05-29T10:04:00.006-05:00

Although almost a week late here is a run down of our Memorial Day weekend events.

We have been waiting for a good time to make Mamaw her "rock" for her garden to go along with all the other grandkids so this was as good a time as any to get to it. We also had one to make for our flower bed. Here are a few pics of the process and of the finished product.

It was really HOT so I decided to get out G's new pool that I (thankfully) got on clearance last year. Luckily we have an air compressor or we would still be blowing air into that thing! Once up and running there was no stopping the boy. He loved the ladder and the slide and the basketball goal.

Unfortunately, so did Jack. After an entire 3 days, the entire thing is nothing more than a pile of memories waiting to be taken to the trash dump (can anyone say carbon footprint?). It was fun while it lasted! Mostly for Jack and Gavin!

The Signs of Summer

2009-05-29T09:55:00.003-05:00

Nothing like a little warm weather and lots of water thanks to this seasons "monsoon" to bring out every form of bug life imaginable. It just so happens that the bugs like Gavin as much as they like momma. Even with a layer of bug spray he still managed to get quite a few bites- especially on his face. Never fear! Calamine lotion aka "dots" helped out greatly. And of course made for a great photo op!

And what little boys scrapbook album would be complete without the requisite "undies" pictures to torment him with later?

Should I Stay or Should I Go Now??

2009-05-29T09:51:00.003-05:00

Ok- you must think my whole life is a continuous montage of lyrics running in my head but I can't help it.
Here is my perdicament: K and G are going on a fishing/camping trip with my dad tomorrow and I am conflicted as to whether I should go or not. On one hand the thought of getting some me time and some things done that are a bit harder to accomplish with the boys here is very inticing. On the other hand, missing out on G's adventure and being away from the 2 of them for 2 days and nights makes my tummy hurt. What is a girl to do?? Comments not only welcome but in this case needed!!

Great Gift!

2009-05-28T20:03:00.003-05:00

The last day of preschool was May 21st, and it was bittersweet. I had so enjoyed getting to know Gavin's teachers as well as my time in the Bible Study that was also going on on those Thursdays. But, at the same time the fact that Gavin has made it through his first year of preschool for those 2 days a week and had such a wonderful experience I didn't want his time to end. He LOVED school!
We were so blessed to have been given and end of the year gift from Mrs. Virginia and Mrs. Carrie. It was a wonderful scrapbook of Gavin's year. There are some FANTASTIC pictues in there. I kept everything that was sent home in a 3 ring binder as well and to have both of those to give to him when he is older means a lot to me. I am so thankful that they took the time to document his year in a way that I couldn't.

Lunch with Mommy and Daddy (and Clifford?)

2009-05-28T19:47:00.001-05:00

Kris and I got to eat lunch with Gavin at school. Of course, we brought Wendy's! It was the next to last day of school and also (unfortunately) the book fair. Let's just say they made some money off of momma!
That morning at drop off, Gavin spotted Clifford. He was so excited but when I asked him if he was going to talk to him and he let out a resounding "NO"! Luckily by lunch time he had gained enough courage (probably due to his friend Jake) that he was ready for his close up with Clifford. Even though the picture looks a bit like they were super-imposed, I am so glad we got one!

What's Up With that Look??

2009-05-28T19:45:00.002-05:00

Love this pic and had to show it- boots, clothes, hair, but what is with the look??

At the Car Wash yeah!!

2009-05-28T19:29:00.004-05:00

As many ATV's and ATV type vehicles that Gavin has, I guess it was just a matter of time before Gavin would turn our backyard into his own miniature car wash. I am all about cleanliness but he is taking it to a whole new level! He washes them for what seems like hours and then washes Jack (the dog). Now, if I just just harness some of that for the future......

End of School Garden Party

2009-05-28T18:53:00.004-05:00

For Gavin's end of the school year party for preschool, we had a Garden Party. Here are a couple of the different invitations that I made to send home to the parents.

We had such a great time! First we decorated our sunglasses, because you HAVE to have on shades to work in the garden.

Then the kids got to plant a flower after decorating their clay pots and the mess was FANTASTIC!! Some of them were afraid of making a mess but once they got going there was no turning back!

We finally got to the pinata and I never knew it would be so hard! That thing just did not want to burst open. I finally had to start tearing it a bit each time becuase after 9 kids each getting to hit it 3 times, we were ready for the goodies to hit the floor!

After some dirt cake with worms the kids were treated with a goody bag that contained a metal bucket, gardening gloves, 2 metal gardening tools, a packet of sunflowers to plant and a water bottle.
I was so proud of how it turned out and how much fun the kids had. I was just sad that the school year was over!

Changes...

2009-05-16T23:19:00.002-05:00

I am sitting here trying to figure out how to start this post. The truth is I just can't think of a good way.
I have been going to NorthPark Baptist for over 2 years now and LOVE it! I taught Sunday School, sang in the choir, did anything I could do and still have time with my family. But Kris didn't go with us and it made me miserable! I prayed and prayed about him going and then realized I was the problem. I was not letting him be the leader and at the same time I was being selfish by wanting to hold on to all the "things" I did at NP. So now, we are attending Heritage Methodist where Gavin goes to preschool and it has been such a change. It has only been a few weeks so it will take time to get into a routine and to even decide if that is the place for us. But we are going as a family and that means the world to me!

I miss NP and all my friends and "family" there, but I also know that they have been praying for this too and sometimes God doesn't answer in the way we think he will or should. I know we will keep in touch and still see each other.

April Books

2009-05-16T22:12:00.003-05:00

So, here it is May 16th and I am just now posting the books I read for April. I have been so behind on blogging... both reading and "writing". But I did keep up with my reading. Got to have some relaxation mixed in somewhere!

Freakin' Fabulous by Clinton Kelly. LOVE What Not To Wear with Clinton and Stacey so I had to read this when they got it at the library. It obviously doesn't fit in too well for this area but I was not disappointed!

How to Behave So Your Preschooler Will Too by Sal Severe. I really got a lot out of this book. The author really did a good job of explaining the workings of the preschoolers mindset. It also helps you to remember why you love being a mom in the first place!!

She Said Yes by Misty Bernall. Get the Kleenex out on this true story written by a mother of a Columbine victim. At the time I checked it out I did not realize it was around the 10th anniversary of the Columbine shooting. What was so awesome about this book is the fact that the girl had come from a very similar place that the shooters were at. The lengths that the Bernalls went through to get her out of that place was incredible!

Lucky by Alice Sebold is another heart wrenching read. It is a memoir in which Sebold tells about her rape and eventual recovery as well as all the in between. Very hard to read at times.

Hypoglycemia for Dummies Maybe because I had to lighten up the reading a bit or because I felt like I needed a refresher course (since I suffer from low blood sugar).

Sunday's At Tiffany's by James Patterson. Let me preface by saying I have never read anything by James Patterson that I didn't like. Let me also say I have never read any of his thrillers. Having said that, I really don't know how I felt about this book. It was ok, not the worst thing I have ever read-as some people have said after reading it- but it was a bit kooky. Basically, a little girl has an imaginary friend in her childhood, a somewhat miserable mother, and ends up that the "friend" was not so imaginary after all when they see each other when she is an adult. Without giving anything away that is all I can say. So, I wouldn't buy it but if you've got some extra time on your hands.....

The Middle Mom

2009-05-16T18:07:00.002-05:00

I am ashamed to say I thought I already posted this! (issues anyone??)
Anywhoo, you need to check out Southern Fried Girl's post titled The Middle Mom for a giveaway and some great information for anyone thinking of adoption or becoming a foster parent. Honestly, I hope I win, but I will spread the love and spread the word just the same!

Let Me Introduce You to My Friends!

2009-05-16T17:54:00.003-05:00

I have 2 new friends in my life as of Friday and I must say I couldn't be happier! They are quiet, they clean, and they make my life easier! With that let me introduce them to you:

Maybe not quite what you imagined but let me tell you, they are fantastic! We really only needed a new dryer but the difference in our old set and this new High Efficiency Amana is incredible!
Thanks to my hubby for taking care of the "details". He even washed a few loads of laundry in the process!

Green Living

2009-05-16T17:46:00.002-05:00

I am not as green as I would like to be but I am trying. In the spirit of living green I wanted to share with you a contest to enter from HGTV for the Green Home Giveaway. I get the HGTV newsletter and I LOVE the ideas and great giveaways. Click HGTV and enjoy!

Great Coupons!

2009-05-16T10:22:00.003-05:00

I LOVE coupons! I LOVE getting a deal and finding the cheapest prices. It is almost an obsession. I stock up on things for baby showers, bridal showers, birthdays, you name it! So I was really pleased to find this great set of coupons to print and I wanted to share with you. Click here to go to the Kraft website.

The things a Man will do for His Kid

2009-05-05T19:27:00.006-05:00

If these pics can't tell you how much my hubby loves G then nothing will. Kris had something just come over him and he had to create this "carnival ride" in our backyard.
First, he had to climb the 2 trees to put up the rope.

Then after G patiently waiting- finally: THE RIDE!!

After a long hard day of swinging and thanking daddy for the new addition here is what we ended up with!

What a great day!

Our First Garden

2009-04-27T08:58:00.002-05:00

Growing up I always remember having a garden. Didn't exactly love it then but as I have gotten older (and wiser) I do! Kris has always had a garden as well and we have wanted to have one way before now. But finally this year we made it happen! We rented a heavy duty tiller and our small garden turned out to be about 30x50! But boy are we excited about it! Corn, okra, tomatoes, beans.....Yum!
Gavin may be the most excited though. He woke up the next morning and wanted to know if the garden had grew! I wish it was that fast!
Here is G and daddy working hard.

The Winner (finally)

2009-04-27T08:53:00.002-05:00

I drew a winner last Tuesday (I know, I know) for my 100th Blog Giveaway. Since then I have had a stomach bug and multiple migraines so blogging (and just anything to do with the computer) was put on hiatus!
But without further ado the winner is........Southern Fried Gal!! So as soon as I get your gift together I will get it out to you. Just get me your information (email if you would like to jlhalmes@hotmail.com)
I tried to get a picture of Gavin drawing for me but he just wanted to play with the slips of paper when he was done!
Thanks everyone for entering and for reading.

Handy Helper

2009-04-27T08:45:00.002-05:00

I am so behind on my blogging- but I got LOTS to blog about.

We have a 3 bedroom house and the extra bedroom is used as my scrapbook/craft room and our "office". I decided to trade rooms with Gavin becuase my room was bigger and then we could get the horse and train table out of our living room and back where they belong! That was about two weeks ago and I am STILL trying to get it back to some sort of normal.
Without as much closet space and room size I am really trying to purge. But we have a file cabinet that is a must and I desperately wanted to get it into the closet. I was having a problem so I had my helper husband assist me. When he told me he was finished I was soooooo excited!
This is what "finished" looked like:

Needless to say, we put it elsewhere!

Prayer Request

2009-04-23T07:43:00.003-05:00

Please keep the Beverly Baccus-Bewley family in your payers. She passed away yesterday of a stroke after having her baby girl. I went to HS with her and she was such a great person to be around. Always energetic and positive. (She made FHA super fun!!)
My heart is breaking for her husband baby and family. I know God has a bigger plan but sometimes it is hard to see it though things like this.

New Blog Site

2009-04-21T08:38:00.004-05:00

I found a fantastic new blog site with the CUTEST stuff that I want to share with you. It is called Imperfectly Beautiful

She just opened her Etsy store and is hosting a giveaway. Visit her site and see for yourself!

Mother of All Giveaways!

2009-04-20T21:19:00.003-05:00

Go check out The Meanest Mom for the Mother of All Giveways for Mother's Day!! It is fantastic!!

Giveaway Reminder

2009-04-19T18:31:00.002-05:00

Don't forget to sign up for my Blogiversary Giveaway. Just look at my blog from April titled "Finally Made It" for the how to's!
Good luck and thanks for all who read and tell others.

So Inadequate

2009-04-15T19:05:00.002-05:00

I had the privelage and honor of having an intense conversation with my neice about God, Jesus, and Heaven. For an 8 year old she is so smart and so spiritually connected that quite frankly makes me feel so inferior. She helps me to see that it doesn't matter what bible studies you attend, how much you read you bible, or how aware you think you may be, God through the eyes of a child is the best vision ever. I am so blessed to have her in my life and hope one day that I will be able to answer all the questions she does have. At this point,I know I am no where near where I want to be in life, and it all begins with ME!

Mean Moms

2009-04-15T10:34:00.001-05:00

Found this and wanted to share. Enjoy!

The Mean Mother"
Someday when my children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates a parent,
I will tell them, as my Mean ole Mom told me:

I loved you enough... to ask where you were going, with whom, and what time you would be home.
I loved you enough to be silent and let you discover that your new best friend was a creep.
I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your room,
a job that should have taken 15 minutes.

I loved you enough to let you see anger, disappointment, and tears in my eyes.

Children must learn that their parents aren't perfect.

I loved you enough to let you assume the responsibility for your actions even when the penalties were so harsh they almost broke my heart.

But most of all, I loved you enough...to say NO when I knew you would hate me for it.

Those were the most difficult battles of all.

I'm glad I won them, because in the end you won, too. And someday when your children are old enough to understand the logic that motivates parents, you will tell them.

Was your Mom mean? I know mine was.

We had the meanest mother in the whole world! While other kids ate candy for breakfast,

we had to have cereal, eggs, and toast.

When others had a Pepsi and a Twinkie for lunch, we had to eat sandwiches.

And you can guess our mother fixed us a dinner that was different from what other kids had, too.

Mother insisted on knowing where we were at all times. You'd think we were convicts in a prison.

She had to know who our friends were, and what we were doing with them. She insisted that if we said we would be gone for an hour, we would be gone for an hour or less.

We were ashamed to admit it, but she had the nerve to break the Child Labor Laws by making us work.
We had to wash the dishes, make the beds, learn to cook, vacuum the floor, do laundry, empty the trash and all sorts of cruel jobs. I think she would lie awake at night thinking of more things for us to do.

She always insisted on us telling the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

By the time we were teenagers, she could read our minds and had eyes in the back of her head.

Then, life was really tough!

Mother wouldn't let our friends just honk the horn when they drove up. They had to come up to the door so she could meet them.

While everyone else could date when they were 12 or 13, we had to wait until we were 18

Because of our mother we missed out on lots of things other kids experienced. None of us have ever been caught shoplifting, vandalizing other's property or ever arrested for any crime. It was all her fault.

Now that we have left home, we are all educated, honest adults. We are doing our best to be mean parents just like Mum was. I think that is what's wrong with the world today. It just doesn't have enough mean mums!

Dibby Debils Anyone

2009-04-14T17:18:00.003-05:00

This morning as Gavin is still lying in bed I asked him what he wanted for breakfast. First he said waffles which was a surprise. But he quickly changed his mind and said "I want Dibby Debils". Huh? I had NO IDEA what "dibby debils" was but it wasn't long until I was on my first quest of the day. He kept saying "Dibby Debils- that's what I'm talking about". I was laughing so hard and the more I laughed the louder he got. Finally, after taking him to the kitchen and letting him on the counter this is what I now know to be "dibby debils" (trademark still pending)

So after a healthy breakfast of "Dibby Debils"-no milk- and water, his request our day could begin.
And now as we are sitting outside enjoying this wonderful weather he has decided he wanted some more "Dibby Debils" and we now know that they make a great dog food as well!

Finally Made It!

2009-04-13T17:40:00.008-05:00

To 100 blogs that is! I wanted to celebrate with cake (who doesn't) but as I was searching for just the right one I just got more and more confused!!
Should I go the over the top route and try to confuse my friends and family with something like this bride did?

Then I realized that might be a bit much since it is just a blog celebration and not a wedding celebration.
Then I found this beauty. Now let me preface showing it to you by saying that I thought a lot about whether I should post it or not. Could be offensive to some readers (all 3 of them). But, I couldn't resist. I think just to prove to myself that I didn't dream it more than anything else. (besides, who doesn't need a laugh these days)
ok- the cake that keeps on giving:

Nothing more I can add.
And then I even thought about an ode to the cute little creatures that we associate with spring: the baby chick. Until I found this redition.

Not exactly cute and cuddly!
So, here is my final pick. My perfect celebratory cake that I think says a lot about who I am.

Ok, so ALL of that to say it's my 100th blog and to celebrate I am having a giveaway. What, you may ask? I haven't actually decided but even if it's a box of Kleenex, who doesn't like a good giveaway. Here's what you do to enter. Just leave me a comment. Get an additonal entry for every person who mentions the read it on your blog that is not already a reader.
Contest ends April 20th at midnight and the winner will be announced on the 21st.
(no purchase neccessary nor will bribes increase your odds of winning (but will be accepted), not valid in the Dominican Republic or Canada. Void where prohibited)

The Easter Bunny Delivers

2009-04-13T17:18:00.003-05:00

Gavin had forgotten it was Easter morning when he woke up. He just kind of laid there in the bed telling me what he dreamed about and wondering out loud if Daddy was home. Then he made his way into the living room and screamed "Daddy he came, the Easter Bunny came. Come and see!" He was so excited. I barely got to my camera in time before he started tearing into the loot. He got a stuffed "Snoopy" dog, candy, a fishing game, a small "Tuck" figure from Wonder Pets, and a baseball bat and tee. You can only imagine how he and the bat have been getting along. Fast friends and partners in crime!

I did make a mistake and put Easter grass in his car basket. He got that stuff everywhere. I am still finding it today!

Mini Egg Hunt

2009-04-13T17:10:00.003-05:00

Let me clarify. The kids did not hunt tiny eggs, it was just that our egg hunt was small with just 2 kids.
It was Dani's first egg hunt and the 2nd for Gavin, but the first one he really participated in. Julie hid eggs in their backyard filled with teeth rotting goodness and money! They had the best time and the weather cooperated.

As you can see that had quite a haul! Oh to be a kid again!

What a Face!

2009-04-13T17:06:00.003-05:00

Aunt Julie gave Gavin a "tasty" treat for Easter: some sort of powdered filled bunny looking egg shaped things. Unfortunatley, no one knew that the contents were mouth pucking sour! Here is a couple of shots I managed to get while laughing so hard at G-man.

Needless to say, we left the "eggbunnies" in the trash!

Yesterday

2009-04-11T08:03:00.002-05:00

I suck as a human being. There really is not better way to put it. Let me explain:

Yesterday I had deemed as one of my worst days ever. First I started with a migraine. Then on the way to see the Easter Bunny we almost got run over by a FedEx truck. Then we find out that the bunny is MIA and won't have a replacement for another 30 minutes. So after 45 minutes in line and an additional 45 minutes roaming-Gavin never even got a picture.(see prior post) We went to Sam's where he was in rare form. Leaving there, I almost ran over the guy picking up all the empty shopping carts. Still feeling bad- we went to Wal-Mart, got nothing accomplished and came home.
As I sit here this morning and pray it is a better day I think about how awful Jesus' day was on Good Friday. The pain he endured in NOTHING compared to my miniscle little moments. I am ashamed for feeling that way and hope He can forgive me.
Blessings to you all and Happy Easter.

The Incredible Durable Egg

2009-04-10T22:24:00.003-05:00

I never knew decorating Easter Eggs could be considered a contact sport until this evening. Gavin just doesn't seem to get the concept of "be careful they will crack". He was rolling eggs to us like they were bowling balls and knocking us out of the way so he could get them out of the dye. He LOVED it! We did 2 dozen eggs and he was still upset becuase "there's nothing left to color momma". We waited for daddy to get home so he could be in on the festivities (i.e. get the dye ready and help the kid so I could get pictures). What a sport.
Here are some of our magnificent creations- Martha Stewart beware!!

Try to ignore the cheetoh stained hands!

Really thinking about what this creation should be!

I think the sumo squat really adds something to the picture!

Chocolate Covered Strawberries

2009-04-10T20:42:00.004-05:00

What better time to give a kid someting messy to eat than when they are already in the bathtub? See Exhibit A:

Now, Gavin doesn't like strawberries. He likes just about everything but I think it is the seeds that he dislikes. (he is all about texture). But chocolate!! He can ALWAYS eat chocolate, which is what he did. Ate the good stuff and left the rest!

Easter Party

2009-04-10T20:33:00.002-05:00

Thursday was the Easter Celebration at Gavin preschool. I was one of the party planners so I decided to try and come up with some cute invitations. Here is what I made.

I love having my Cricut machine. Not only did I use it for the invitations but I also cut 50+ eggs for a craft that they did. Makes my life a bit easier.

The kids had so much fun (and so much sugar). I love that the kids are all so sweet and act like I am just one of the other teachers. They climb on me, let me hold them, and run up to tell me stuff. Very sweet- makes me really want to pursue my teaching degree even more.
Here are some of the pictures from the party.

Jesus Would Be So Proud

2009-04-10T20:26:00.003-05:00

One day, a little boy was being a little too quiet. His door was almost closed with just enough space to peek in and see what the damage might be.
It seems the boy found one of the plastic crosses that we had left over from a craft we did in our preschool Sunday School class. We put different colored sand in them. Gavin had a better idea.

The funny part was watching him put in a couple peices of popcorn then eat a few. Now we have some new "art" for his bedroom!

Visiting the Easter Bunny

2009-04-10T20:05:00.003-05:00

The joys of Easter would not be complete without a trip to your local mall to visit the Easter Bunny. Sitting there with his big cute ears and fluffy bunny tail. So adorable. This is what I saw:

This is what Gavin saw:

He has been wanting to go see the Easter Bunny so badly and couldn't wait to sit in his lap and get candy and bunny ears. Even this morning getting dressed and on the way he was so excited. But once we pulled in and exited the car--"I'm not sitting in his lap". "OK I said. Do you just want to stand by him?" "Yes".
After a 45 minute wait and aching legs (still from shingles) we finally get to "the bunny" and Gavin tries to run away! I was shocked! I did get him close enough to get a sucker from the basket but he never even got CLOSE to the Easter Bunny. Head down, hand in his mouth (his nervous habit) he just inched closer and closer to the gate to get out! Now, I have seen some parents throw their kids up there crying hysterically and that is just now how I roll! I just said "Ok, lets go eat". He didn't fight me!

2009-04-09T19:15:00.003-05:00

Matthew 27:50-53
And when Jesus had cried out again in a loud voice, he gave up his spirit. At that moment the curtain of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom. The earth shook and the rocks split. The tombs broke open and the bodies of many holy people who had died were raised to life. They came out of the tombs, and after Jesus' resurrection they went into the holy city and appeared to many people.(NIV)

I love Easter. Maybe more than Christmas. It is such a special time and a time to reflect. I am truly amazed that God could love me enough to sacrafice his only son for me.

Following

2009-04-07T10:19:00.002-05:00

I hope I don't offend anyone with this post but I have made an AMAZING discovery! Blogspot can make you feel like high school all over again- and not in a good way. Following. We all know what it is but not all of us have very many (me included). Then you go read a blog you follow and see they have 12,573 followers and counting. Don't get me wrong, nothing I blog about will bring peace on earth or keeps the fate of the free world in question. BUT we all want to feel liked.
So anyone reading this with lots of followers, consider yourself "popular". As for the rest of us.....

New Toy

2009-04-05T15:09:00.002-05:00

If Papaw wasn't already Gavin's favorite person in the world, he definately elevated his status after giving Gavin a new 4-wheeler. It is just his size but runs on gas- so no more having to recharge. Gavin loves it. Now he wants daddy to race him all the time. He spent over 8 hours outside yesterday playing on that and all his other outside riders. We could have a mini-ATV dealership here with the 4-wheelers and 3 wheelers and scooters. Lots of wheels around here.

And again, I MUST brag on my hubby. Since I have been sick he has been such a big help. He and Gavin spent the whole day together- just a small taste of the future I am sure. He fed him, played with him, consoled him. He is the best! Then to finish the day he cooked out on the grill for us. My man ROCKS (plus he is a hottie!)

Spring/Easter Decorations

2009-04-05T15:01:00.004-05:00

I love to decorate- I may not be great at it, but I enjoy it. I found some really cute things at Hobby Lobby (aka my second home) and then got some flowers, a grapevine wreath, and some eggs to complete the picture in my head.

The "Spring" letters I printed from different patterned srapbook paper with my Cricut. I love the colors of spring and since my house is all neutrals it makes it so much brighter.

Finally!

2009-04-05T14:36:00.003-05:00

We have been trying forever to fly Gavin's kite that we bought him this year. He has had kite's before but of the $1 variety- they flew but nothing spectacular. Then on our last trip to Sam's a few months ago Gavin saw the gigantic kites and begged for it. Knowing that Kris would have just as much fun with it as Gavin, we got it.

Gavin is not big on patience (we always joke he got it from his aunt Julie) so everyday "is it windy enough" was uttered at least once from his mouth. After several tries on Thursday we went to the farm and got enough wind for it to fly. Kris and Gavin had the best time and I loved watching them together even not feeling well at the time.

The Haircut

2009-04-05T14:22:00.003-05:00

Or, I should say, The BAD haircut. Gavin has beautiful hair. Love it! But it still has to be trimmed to keep it's "we don't do a thing to it" look. Unfortuantely our normal hairdresser doesn't cut hair anymore so we went somewhere new. When I said "clean it up a bit" I guess she heard "cut it so he looks like an orphan". It is terrible. But hair grows so as long as it looks good for picture day on the 21st....

Shingles

2009-04-05T12:54:00.002-05:00

Nope, not that kind. This kind:

I had felt so bad starting last Monday- like I had the flu with a few other sypmtoms thrown in. I just got worse and worse. My skin hurt to even have clothes on, much less to be touched. Then on Wednesday I noticed these weird bumps that REALLY hurt and itched. By Thursday they had spread down my legs. Then I had some swollen lymph nodes and panicked. I got to the doctor on Friday who diagnosed me with Shingles, medicated me, and sent me on my way. Luckily (or unluckily) my dad has experienced the debilitating pain so I knew what I was in for. I still feel miserable and really want to catch up on my blogging but I am trying to pace myself.
Hopefully I won't have quite the time my dad had since I caught it earlier and I am younger. (that is what I keep telling myself anyway)

March Books

2009-03-31T18:49:00.004-05:00

I feel like I read WAY more books this month than what I have on my list but unless I missed one, here we go:

The ADD/ADHD Checklist by Sandra Reif. Pretty self explanatory. When we were afraid that Gavin had ADHD we were instructed to get this book. It was helpful in some ways but we did find out that Gavin does not have ADHD.

The Hour I First Believed by Wally Lamb- great book and one I have wanted to read for some time. It was pretty rough in parts due to language but a great read (although long at over 700 pages). It is fiction but centers around Columbine.

Testimony by Anita Shreve- also tough at times but I enjoyed it and found it hard to put down. It depicts a college sex crime and it's affect on the town and the families involved.

You:Staying Young By Dr. Oz- this was a fast read and very informative. Very straight forward and doesn't get too scientfic.

A Dish Taken Cold by Anne Perry- this was a quick read also. Read it easily in one night. I had wanted to read something of hers so thought this was a good starting point.

Very Valentine by Adriana Trigiani. I had read Big Stone Gap by her and really liked it. I also saw her on a morning news program talking about how she had researched for the book. It is based around a family owned shoe company. I really enjoyed it and look forward to the next 2 in the serious.
I have already gotten way ahead in April and have some great books lined up. The fact that I have been sick has given me a bit more time to read. (got to hate that)!

The Laceration!

2009-03-31T18:43:00.002-05:00

Ok- I am exagerating here but if you judged by the size of the band-aid you would think that a toe had fell off and we were trying to preserve it. For some reason G doesn't like small bandages anymore because he says they "burn". The only thing I can remotely imagine he is talking about is the part when the bandage comes off.

Anyhoo- he stepped on a train while coming into the kitchen (see prior post regarding train table/coffee table) and it did quite a number on his big toe. He worked it for quite sometime but once he realized that it would deter him from doing some of the things he enjoys his foot magically "doesn't hurt anymore!!" and he proceeded to show me by jumping, dancing, and falling. I guess bandages CAN cure all things!

A Boy and His Dog

2009-03-30T15:37:00.002-05:00

We got really lucky when we got our Goldendoodle, Jack. He is the best natured and so laid back. It is a good thing because Gavin would drive him crazy otherwise. He is always taunting him and yet Jack comes back for more. Yesterday, Gavin got in the "clubhouse" in the sandbox and Jack just came right on in with him. He laid there in the sand while Gavin scooped mounds of sand on him. Jack never moved!

What a pal he is!! In the end, I don't know who was dirtier but I know they were both happy.

My Man Rocks!!

2009-03-30T15:29:00.004-05:00

This is the blog where I brag a bit on my dear hubby! He is so good to us and works so hard. But I can always count on him to pitch in around the house when I am feeling overwhelmed! Case in point, last night I was trying so hard to get caought up in the kitchen and with the laundry so I could have some extra time to spend with Gavin this week. Lo and behold, Kris takes Gavin and gives him a bath.

The bad thing about this is that Gavin is beginning to request WHO he wants to do WHAT for him. (daddy has to get my chocolate milk, not momma). All I can say is I am very lucky to have someone who will cook, clean, bathe, and yep even sing when neccessary!

Hey momma!

2009-03-30T15:25:00.002-05:00

That was what I was hearing when Gavin comes to the backdoor with his pants (and underwear) around his ankles.

Boys are so bashful! It seems he was wet and instead of coming in stripping down and taking care of it he figured he could get a head start on the way in. Whoever said boys are easier never had to worry about when and where their little man will decide to let loose~!

About Me (I've Been Tagged!)

2009-03-30T13:15:00.002-05:00

I was tagged by Laura in her post and hope my answers are not TOO boring!! (thanks LB)

What is your blogger name?
Jennifer
When is your birthday?
March 15Th

How long have you been blogging?
Since Nov of '07 but continuously for about a year

Who tagged you?
Laura B

Tell me your five most favorite body parts.
Weird- on me my smile (don't have 5)

What do you wish most for your birthday?
Just to be with Kris and Gavin

What color are you nails right now?
natural

Have you had any depressing thoughts lately?
No
What’s your plan for the next month?
get lots done before Summer

At what age did you have your first crush?
I have no idea!
Have you attended any school reunions?
only that of my mom's- I missed my 10 year reunion

Have you ever passed gas in public and pretended like you didn’t smell anything?
NO

Are you a clean freak?
Yes but with a child.....

What era do you wish you were born in?
???

Are you a vegetarian?
NO but I could be

How many pillows do you sleep with at night?
1

Are you a light sleeper or a heavy sleeper?
that just depends

Do you secretly wear granny panties when your man is not around?
don't even own any

What is your ultimate dream job?
teacher or lawyer

What does your husband do that annoys you the most?
chews his fingers!

What is your dream car?
one that is paid for

Do you wake up easily in the morning?
depends on how Gavin slept the night before

Do you like hairy men?
no

How about a man with a goatee?
I have me a man with a goatee!

Which would you prefer: a two-hour spa massage, a two-hour Thai massage, or a two-hour foot massage?
Spa massage totally (since I am not sure what a Thai massage entails)

Have you ever wished you had a different name? If so, what name?
NO

What is the most extreme sport you have ever done?
does motherhood count?

Do you prefer traveling in Europe or Asia?
have not done either but would probably prefer Europe

What is your favorite food?
Chinese (maybe I should reconsider my last answer!)

What is your most embarrassing moment while out on a date?
??
You can just copy and paste my questions and answers onto your blog and then erase my answers and fill in your own!

The Meanest Mom Giveaway

2009-03-30T08:32:00.003-05:00

You have to check out this site and post from The Meanest Mom: http://themeanestmom.blogspot.com/2009/03/swimsuit-giveaway.html. Not only is this one of the blogs I follow- and highly suggest to anyone else- she has this fantastic giveaway! Who doesn't need help in the swimwear department?

Little Leaguer

2009-03-28T20:23:00.002-05:00

We almost signed Gavin up for 3-4 year old t-ball this year but because of Kris' work schedule changing for the summer we decided to wait until next year. We are pretty sure that Gavin will be a good player because he is always throwing things and does so pretty well. So, we invested in a ball glove and now it is just a matter of practice. We will wait for the "real" bat and tee when he gets a little better with his aim!

Best Buds

2009-03-28T16:49:00.002-05:00

Last Thursday my friend Anna called to see if we could meet at the mall for a playdate. We were already in Ft Smith so it was perfect timing. The boys love to play in the play area by the food court (as do about 25 other little heathens) so how could I say no? I got some cute pics of them playing but by far the best was when they were holding hands as we walked to The Children's Place. They were so cute and innocent and it made my heart melt.

Afterwards we talked them into to Chinese food and they ate like little piggies! I am so thankful that Gavin loves Chinese food-unlike his daddy.

Tough Love

2009-03-28T16:43:00.002-05:00

You all know I love me some good reality (aka trash) tv. As I have said in the past, it makes me feel better about myself. From Rock of Love to Housewives to Bachelor! VH1's new show Tough Love is no exception! Love it!! It comes on Sunday nights and it cracks me up. The premise of the show that that the host (see pic) is a matchmaker and he is trying to help these women out. So we get to hear EVERYTHING that the men think about them. This show makes me so thankful that I found Kris-the love of my life- and somehow I managed to catch him in spite of myself.

So if you need a good laugh and a self-esteem boost, see Tough Love!

Jackpot!

2009-03-28T16:38:00.002-05:00

As you may know, March 31st is my dad's 60th birthday so tonight we are giving him a small surprise party of kids and grandkids. I was in charge of the cake and although it didn't turn out exactly as I had pictured (not enough time!) I think it turned out cute.

I hope the weather cooperates so everyone can get there. I know he is going to be so excited and he loves to spend any chance he can with his kids and grandkids!

Chewy Chocolate Chip Cookies

2009-03-25T17:37:00.003-05:00

Last week I went to a Girls Game Night at my friend Anna's house. Everyone brought snacks and there were some wonderful chocolate chip cookies that our friend Candice had made. She said the recipe was in our church cookbook so I looked for it. I found a recipe in there of hers but when I finished my cookies they did not look the same. The recipe I used is great and extra chocolately but I am still wondering "where is the other recipe"?
Here is what I made and they are delicious:
2 1/4 C. flour
1 tsp. baking soda
1 C. soft butter
3/4 C. brown sugar
1/4 C. white sugar
1 pkg. instant chocolate fudge pudding
2 eggs
1 tsp. vanilla
2 C. chocolate chips
1 C. nuts (optional)

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Combine flour and baking soda and set aside. Cream togehter the butter and brown and white sugars. Next mix in instant pudding powder. Then add eggs and vanilla. Gradually add the flour mixture. Finally mix in the chocolate chips and optional nuts. Bake from 10-12 minutes.
Yeild 3 1/2 dozen.

Gavin loved them even before they were baked as you can see from his nasty face!

We were planning on taking them to a cookout for choir but now Gavin is coughing like crazy so sadly we will have to eat them all by ourselves!

Tribute to Snoopy

2009-03-25T17:34:00.003-05:00

As I recently mentioned, Gavin loves The Peanuts Gang. So you can imagine how excited he was when I found this Snoopy craft for him to make.
All we needed was a toilet paper roll and glue and we were all set. (Sadly I have a vast collection of tp rolls and paper towel rolls in my craft supply chest, as you never know when you will need them!)
I think it turned out cute- and the best part is that it took about 2 minutes to put together.

My little Digger

2009-03-24T15:31:00.002-05:00

We have been working on our back patio area, taking out the old plants and trying desperately to get out all of the lava rock. It must be 12 inches deep! I don't know if we will ever get it completed but it sure does keep Gavin occupied. He loves to dig especially since I got him his new yard tools. Please take notice of the tag still on-- just a little tribute to Minnie Pearl you could say!

Lake Fort Smith

2009-03-24T15:23:00.002-05:00

Last Friday Gavin and I went to Fayetteville with my dad for just a quick trip there and back. Dad decided to take the scenic route and we stopped on the way up at Lake Fort Smith. It is really pretty there but it was really cool and windy that day so we just drove through. Then Gavin wanted to go inside (I think the promise of cookies from papaw helped). When we got inside he was so excited trying to look at everything. The funny thing is that is favorite part was the fishing lures that were in a little case. (keep in mind that he had not yet been fishing at this point in his life).
He really liked the "noculars" too and looked for squirrels and birds- mostly at other people walking. I am glad my son likes the simple things.--- and instead of cookies he got jelly beans!

First Time Fishing!

2009-03-24T15:08:00.004-05:00

Gavin went fishing for the first time on Sunday and he loved it! He was really patient considering what fishing is- throw it out and wait! Mostly he just threw it out and reeled it in but it was amazing how far that little booger could cast! The weather was so great to be out and he and daddy rode the 4-wheeler for a little while waiting to get started. He wants to go FAST!!

Unfortunately the fish weren't biting but Papaw managed to catch one that Gavin helped reel in and then just stared at it like "now what"?

In truth I think Gavin's favorite part was getting to ride over to the farm in the motor home. I think he might would move in it if someone asked.
There was one mishap that he didn't like and that was when me, him, and Papaw were in the ranger on the way to the smaller pond and we got stuck for a bit. The water was covering the floor and me and dad's feet and he looked up at dad and said "I want to go home". It was so sad and cute at the same time. I just carried him out and waited and he was fine- ready to go anywhere but home.

Fine Television Programming

2009-03-24T15:02:00.003-05:00

My 3 year old is the only person/child I know that is addicted to Tom and Jerry and Peanuts and the Gang! And I am using the correct term- addicted! He wants to watch them all the time. We finally had to break down and buy him some Tom and Jerry dvd's because it is rare to find it on television. The Charlie Brown movies are staples because of the holiday collections- but Aunt Julie added to the "problem" by buying Gavin one of the first Peanuts called "A Boy Named Charlie Brown". I know the words to all the songs by listening to it play in the backseat of the car and can repeat most of the conversations but I have never actually seen the movie.
Anyone else have a child with strange addictions?

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